Light Hearted

Father’s Day is a special occasion to honor and appreciate the fathers and father figures in our lives. It’s a day filled with gratitude, memories, and sometimes, a bit of humor about the gifts we give and receive. Today, as I relax at home after a sunny visit to Dallas, I find myself reflecting on the essence of this day and how it is celebrated worldwide.

Both of my kids wished me a Happy Father’s Day today. One came over in person, and the other reached out via video call. It’s moments like these that remind me of the simple joys of fatherhood. I noticed some funny messages in my college group chat, where friends shared stories about the gifts they received—shoes, belts, and socks seem to be the recurring theme. The idea of choosing the perfect gift for dad can indeed be a challenging task. This year, my boys wanted to take me out for lunch or dinner, but I wasn’t in the mood for dining out.

My father is no longer with us, but I remember him every day, especially on Father’s Day. Growing up in India with my brother, we never celebrated this day. We took it for granted that our dad would always be there to fulfill our needs. Unlike the active participation I see in the US—dads at baseball games and soccer practices—my dad showed his love in quieter ways. He brought us tasty snacks from the market and almost never said “no” to anything within his power.

He shared stories of his childhood, painting a picture of simpler times when things were cheaper and life seemed less complicated. There was never any tension in his voice, just a steady, gentle presence. I miss him dearly today.

Father’s Day is celebrated on different dates around the world. In the US, it falls on the third Sunday of June, but in countries like Australia and New Zealand, it’s celebrated on the first Sunday of September. Despite the different dates, the sentiment remains the same—honoring the contributions and sacrifices of fathers.

In some cultures, Father’s Day is a quieter affair compared to Mother’s Day, which often comes with more fanfare and celebration. However, the significance of fathers and their unique role in the family is universally recognized.

Dads are often seen as heroes, though their heroism might not always make headlines. Every year, we hear inspiring stories about fathers who go above and beyond for their families. From everyday acts of kindness to extraordinary feats of courage, fathers demonstrate their love and dedication in countless ways.

Choosing a gift for dad can be tricky. Practical gifts like shoes, belts, and tools for a handyman Dad are common, but it’s the thought that counts. Many dads appreciate experiences over material gifts—spending quality time together, enjoying a meal, or simply sharing a heartfelt conversation.

Father’s Day is more than just a day for gifts and greetings. It’s a reminder to appreciate the silent strength and unwavering support that fathers provide. Whether through grand gestures or simple acts of love, fathers shape our lives in profound ways. Today, as we celebrate, let’s take a moment to honor the fathers who have been our heroes, our mentors, and our friends.